The foreveralone circle

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Cerise said:
It's easy to get into a shallow relationship with someone, e.g. just getting a gf/bf for the sake of having a gf/bf
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Can't agree with you. If it really was so easy, there would be no foreveralones :ohoho:
Nyannika said:
I think it's these people who have been into relationships since they are 14 and never been alone for more than one week since then. :uh..: How the heck are people able to do things like that?
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Gah I wonder the same :uh..:
 
all of u must held each other :TdT:

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"United in SOLITUDE." :desksweat: Yeah. Kinda.

I just find it strange that people break up over trivial things but other people stay with someone even though they're clearly unhappy. It's weird. I really feel like I'm missing something obvious because that sort of stuff doesn't make sense to me.

Not that there's anything *wrong* with being single...I'm sure being in a bad relationship *just for the sake of being in a relationship* is a bad situation to be in and might actually be worse than being on your own...I've seen it happen. They lose their independence and have to pretend that they're happy when they're not...just for the sake of appearances. :uh..: Especially when they're at that awkward age.

Sometimes it's great to relax on your own in peace and quiet...but I must admit I miss the companionship of another person who I can confide in and who's on the same wavelength. When I listen to some people's relationship problems I almost feel TOO MATURE to have a g/f...which really IS weird!
 
Well, I'm not sure if I really understand the meaning of this thread. Sorry if I offended any of you, but definition of alone for me is a condition where you live only by yourself, and have nobody around you.

If this "foreveralone" means don't and never will be in a romantic relationship, I think I could see the meaning of this "foreveralone". But as I say, if you still have someone BESIDES your gf/bf/husband/wife/spouse etc, for example your parents, your friends, even your online friends that you haven't met to share your happiness, sadness, feeling, emotion or anything, I think you're not totally alone (if any of you understand it). You can still reach your happiness and don't feel totally alone if you have someone (and by this I don't mean any gf/bf/husband/wife/spouse). As for me, I only got into romantic relationship twice, and although it does hurt when we broke up, but I still have my friends to cherish my life with then I don't feel like I'm totally and forever will be alone...
 
The meaning of this "foreveralone" indeed refers to romantic relationships. When I was younger I thought about it in a similar way like you, ritardando.
And like Martin said, this immature behavior from people, even twice the age as me is annoying. If someone complains to me about his/her relationship and/or partner, I feel like I should be happy not to go through all that crap, but then again, it's not how I think a relationship should be.
Loving somebody should not just be "having butterflies in your stomach" or feeling hot and dizzy about this person. It's something that develops between people who want to share their lives, love, respect and appreciate each other. Unfortunately many people don't even know anything about that. They want to have just fun and live a carefree life where they care about themselves, and not even that they can do very well...
 
Well...recently my best friend told me that her friend from school (I go to a different high school to her) started dating a guy, fell out of love with him after two months and was quite aware of this fact (well, she told my friend outright that she just didn't like him that way anymore) but she didn't tell him and continued the relationship as if nothing had happened anyway for another 8 months, all because she wanted to have a date to go to formal with... :uh..: even though she knew she didn't even like the guy (who, poor dude, was oblivious to this all until they broke up afterwards...) :cry:
 
Wow Ceri I know a case which is very similar. :ohoho:

It even concerned mah bro (not brother, I just call him that so ppl know it's a male best friend)
And that *cough* sl*CENSORED* even was a friend of mine too. She cheated on him and used him out for money, holidays and beautiful presents.
The worst about it is that we never had thought that from her, she was always so nice :cry:
 
Oh, I see...

Well, although I can't say that I'm a foreveralone person, I do wish you all the happiness you can get~~

Although I can see this point of view of yours. Like wise man once said, the most dreadful thing is human's heart.
 
Trivial question:

do u think by meeting the right person u can reverse the "forever alone" situation ? :ayashii:


if yes, try to reverse the 2 words of "forever alone" into antonym :plot:
 
:ohoho: first of all, the "right" person won't ever come, it's absolutely IMPOSSIBLE (well, at least in my case).
Then, I'll never ever accept it if someone would ask me (which won't be the case anyway).
Hm, finding an antonym for foreveralone...... well it would be togetherforever :ohoho:
 
no... the antonym of forever is never, and the antonym if alone is together..


so, the antonym of forever alone is "Never Together"
 
:cry: ahhh this is too sad, I'm sure there's someone out there for everyone, the trick is finding that someone :TdT: :touched:
 
wa~ this makes my heart want to reach out to everyone :chuu:
ganbatte minna!! i believe there's someone out there waiting for you! :sohappy:
 
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