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CruelAngel said:
^Yes, that would have been better...
So, basically, apart from the possible exception of ritardando's first post on this issue, you've all been talking about a possible problem you had with HimeWakana, on a thread she can see, without even attempting to address her directly about it? Seems kinda rude, to be honest.
I usually don't butt in on stuff that's obviously none of my business, especially cause I am a new member but it did bug me a little to read this entire conversation, which
kinda got a little out of hand, don't you think?
Sorry!! I really don't wanna offend anyone because I actually DO get everyone's point!! Some of you may be annoyed by continued postings, and hey, it's your right to be, I am not telling you to stop!!
Other people like
george need to keep the peace in threads. I am assuming you are a mod, right? :-) And that's why he obviously needs to listen to people's complaints in order to reduce the number of occurring problems/fights/whatever.
But here's the thing....It almost felt like you were 'ganging up' on her and talking about her 'behind her back'. (it felt like I was back at school where it was basically the order of the day to do stuff like that)
Why not directly address the issue when she is online? Or write a PM as has been suggested?
It's not like it's a big deal anyways! I guess everyone can be reasoned with on this matter. One can certainly find a balance that is to everybody's satisfaction, right?
Once again I apologise for being so straight-forward on this matter as it is certainly not my place as a newbie to reprimand any of you. Although I really don't see this as reprimanding (and I hope you don't either!!!) cause like everyone I really just wanna keep the peace so all of us can feel comfortable around here.