What is wrong? HELP!!!

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This is not Philosophy related so everything is safe.

BUT, I want to ask a question that is related to love.
It seems that I can only fall in love with anime characters.
example:
Princess Sakura (timeless and undegraded).
Kobato, Hanato
Chii
Chitose Mihara
Princess Tomoyo
etc.....
Worst of all, It's been a long time since I fell in love with a real person.
UHHHH :uh..:

Maybe one of you has Psychology majors or minors.

Is there something wrong with me?
Or do you know something about this disorder.

It may sound stupid but since it is really OK since you acknowledge me as Hua Xiao Min and not my real identity.

BUT, Help me.
Have you ever seen someone who is like an anime Character?

BTW, I am not a pervert.
It does not mean that falling in love means malicious taught.
I am afraid of malicious things.

It seems that I wanna marry them.
 
oh well.. "infatuation" with anime girls.. ;)

we call it "love" when we are ready to take ALL risks for that person..
we call it "obsession" or "infatuation" if we think we do love a person but yet, we cannot take risk just to make him/her safe.. :) just my opinion.. :)
 
You have 2D-character complex.

Sorry, but there's no cure for that if you keep staying in your room, thinking that you can only love the 2D characters.
 
Nothing serious, just go out more, communicate with people more, it won't be long until you fall in love with a real person! Actually, when you DO fall in love with someone, you'll probably get over all this... obsession :XD:

This happens to many people, whether it is anime characters, characters from comics or books, or any imaginary person. They are made perfect so that we can relate to them and feel a connection. But it's just that enthousiasm for the perfection, which can be intensified when we just do nothing but watch anime all day and don't see what real attraction feels like. This feeling is so strong that it is often mistaken for love, when it actually is not, since love takes much more than just knowing and seeing someone.
 
actually...
i still have infatuation with kira yamato and i don't know why.. but still, i love someone.. :ohoho: :ohoho: :ohoho: :ohoho: :ohoho:
 
Try going to japani it said that some characters are inspired in real people so maybe in Japan there are similar girls to those anime characters

cute and good girls
 
You fall in love with anime characters because they represent all of the things you want in a girl and none of the negatives.

Accepting reality is the first step.

The second step is talking to real women and discovering that they're actually just as wonderful as anime girls.
 
Find a real women and do the following:
1.Unpack
2.Open
3.Discover


you'll find how great they are.
 
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Halofarm said:
You fall in love with anime characters because they represent all of the things you want in a girl and none of the negatives.

Accepting reality is the first step.

The second step is talking to real women and discovering that they're actually just as wonderful as anime girls.
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Oh! YEAH. I forgot.
I kinda dreamt of marrying Yuki.

We'll I do cannot accept the fact that these things of overcautiousness has isolated me from the rest of the world.

There are times that the only (real) girls that I see are my guardians and maids.
In our place there are wealthy people and put me one of them.

My life is very strict security.
I am 16 years old.
I cannot hang out with my friends that easily since I am only locked and isolated at home.
THat gives me almost no friends at all since communication is required in friendship.

We'll only you guys and gals.

We'll just simply put this way.
My parents are very overcautious to me so I cannot hang-out or make outside friends.

WORST, I am enrolled in an exclusive school....... :omgwtf:
FOR people with ------

I really am trying to adapt socially but we'll
Did you notice that I am not we'll socialized with you?
We'll I am one of the socially challenged individuals.

But I own a lot of Video.games.
I have internet?

For people who are socially challenged like me has only this forum to take on.
 
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undergroundpyjama said:
Nothing serious, just go out more, communicate with people more, it won't be long until you fall in love with a real person! Actually, when you DO fall in love with someone, you'll probably get over all this... obsession :XD:

This happens to many people, whether it is anime characters, characters from comics or books, or any imaginary person. They are made perfect so that we can relate to them and feel a connection. But it's just that enthousiasm for the perfection, which can be intensified when we just do nothing but watch anime all day and don't see what real attraction feels like. This feeling is so strong that it is often mistaken for love, when it actually is not, since love takes much more than just knowing and seeing someone.
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We'll girls are also like that. (specifically 80%+ of the girls)
They want us men to be perfect in some way.
They take men generally.

It is not easy to live in expectations.
For playing a lot of videogames, It may seem that girls are easy.
It's not like that.

Even at the age of 16.
I have suffered a lot of heart-ache from girls whom I love but did not love me in return.

It's not easy to become an otaku.
Girls will treat us as perverts. :uh..:
I cannot agree that all Japanese-fanaticism pertains to wrong judgments.

I know girls who are Otaku's but put double-eyes on men.
We'll in my case, this is too much. :uh..:
If they ever cosplay and I came to be around.
They will hit me hard. SERIOUSLY. :uh..:

If I look into pictures of Cosplay.
THey think that I am thinking something ........

I think this is something related to Japanese Culture.
Or related to GENSHIKEN.
Or related to modern superstition.

There was once a superstition that touching a girls hair means sexual arousal.
I DON"T THINK SO. 100% NOT TRUE

THere was another modern superstition pertaining to ......
NEVER MIND.

I'll may PM you if you ask for it.
But, It is not comfortable to hear.
I warn You.
 
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undergroundpyjama said:
Nothing serious, just go out more, communicate with people more, it won't be long until you fall in love with a real person! Actually, when you DO fall in love with someone, you'll probably get over all this... obsession :XD:

This happens to many people, whether it is anime characters, characters from comics or books, or any imaginary person. They are made perfect so that we can relate to them and feel a connection. But it's just that enthousiasm for the perfection, which can be intensified when we just do nothing but watch anime all day and don't see what real attraction feels like. This feeling is so strong that it is often mistaken for love, when it actually is not, since love takes much more than just knowing and seeing someone.
Click to expand...

We'll girls are also like that. (specifically 80%+ of the girls)
They want us men to be perfect in some way.
They take men generally.

It is not easy to live in expectations.
For playing a lot of videogames, It may seem that girls are easy.
It's not like that.

Even at the age of 16.
I have suffered a lot of heart-ache from girls whom I love but did not love me in return.

It's not easy to become an otaku.
Girls will treat us as perverts. :uh..:
I cannot agree that all Japanese-fanaticism pertains to wrong judgments.

I know girls who are Otaku's but put double-eyes on men.
We'll in my case, this is too much. :uh..:
If they ever cosplay and I came to be around.
They will hit me hard. SERIOUSLY. :uh..:

If I look into pictures of Cosplay.
THey think that I am thinking something ........

I think this is something related to Japanese Culture.
Or related to GENSHIKEN.
Or related to modern superstition.

There was once a superstition that touching a girls hair means sexual arousal.
I DON"T THINK SO. 100% NOT TRUE

THere was another modern superstition pertaining to ......
NEVER MIND.

I'll may PM you if you ask for it.
But, It is not comfortable to hear.
I warn You.
 
According to Sankaku Complex:

Male Otaku will look for Female Otaku to be his girlfriend, but Female Otaku won't look for Male Otaku to be her boyfriend. :tea:
 
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Hua Xiao Min said:
Halofarm said:
You fall in love with anime characters because they represent all of the things you want in a girl and none of the negatives.

Accepting reality is the first step.

The second step is talking to real women and discovering that they're actually just as wonderful as anime girls.
Click to expand...

Oh! YEAH. I forgot.
I kinda dreamt of marrying Yuki.

We'll I do cannot accept the fact that these things of overcautiousness has isolated me from the rest of the world.

There are times that the only (real) girls that I see are my guardians and maids.
In our place there are wealthy people and put me one of them.

My life is very strict security.
I am 16 years old.
I cannot hang out with my friends that easily since I am only locked and isolated at home.
THat gives me almost no friends at all since communication is required in friendship.

We'll only you guys and gals.

We'll just simply put this way.
My parents are very overcautious to me so I cannot hang-out or make outside friends.

WORST, I am enrolled in an exclusive school....... :omgwtf:
FOR people with ------

I really am trying to adapt socially but we'll
Did you notice that I am not we'll socialized with you?
We'll I am one of the socially challenged individuals.

But I own a lot of Video.games.
I have internet?

For people who are socially challenged like me has only this forum to take on.
Click to expand...

I think that can be a major problem for social development, to be locked away at home.

To be matter of fact about it, you have a problem that isn't easily dealt with.

It seems to me that the reason you fall in love with anime characters and unobtainable people is that you have no obtainable people to fall in love with.

The only real way to deal with the issue is to persevere until such a time that you are afforded the ability to go out and experience the world and other people.

It's a difficult thing to do but, the way you tell it, it sounds to me as though you have no other choice.

As for being socially inept, things like that get easier over time. Just remember that if you have little social contact then you have to be wary of what you say to other people because things that might seem fine to you can be downright rude to others. It's all about careful trial and error.

:goodjob:
 
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Halofarm said:
Hua Xiao Min said:
Halofarm said:
You fall in love with anime characters because they represent all of the things you want in a girl and none of the negatives.

Accepting reality is the first step.

The second step is talking to real women and discovering that they're actually just as wonderful as anime girls.
Click to expand...

Oh! YEAH. I forgot.
I kinda dreamt of marrying Yuki.

We'll I do cannot accept the fact that these things of overcautiousness has isolated me from the rest of the world.

There are times that the only (real) girls that I see are my guardians and maids.
In our place there are wealthy people and put me one of them.

My life is very strict security.
I am 16 years old.
I cannot hang out with my friends that easily since I am only locked and isolated at home.
THat gives me almost no friends at all since communication is required in friendship.

We'll only you guys and gals.

We'll just simply put this way.
My parents are very overcautious to me so I cannot hang-out or make outside friends.

WORST, I am enrolled in an exclusive school....... :omgwtf:
FOR people with ------

I really am trying to adapt socially but we'll
Did you notice that I am not we'll socialized with you?
We'll I am one of the socially challenged individuals.

But I own a lot of Video.games.
I have internet?

For people who are socially challenged like me has only this forum to take on.
Click to expand...

I think that can be a major problem for social development, to be locked away at home.

To be matter of fact about it, you have a problem that isn't easily dealt with.

It seems to me that the reason you fall in love with anime characters and unobtainable people is that you have no obtainable people to fall in love with.

The only real way to deal with the issue is to persevere until such a time that you are afforded the ability to go out and experience the world and other people.

It's a difficult thing to do but, the way you tell it, it sounds to me as though you have no other choice.

As for being socially inept, things like that get easier over time. Just remember that if you have little social contact then you have to be wary of what you say to other people because things that might seem fine to you can be downright rude to others. It's all about careful trial and error.

:goodjob:
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So, You mean that they all hate me. :uh..:

I wonder if there is any written manual about relating with other people.
I think I need it badly.
I might have hurt you and not know about it.

REALLY SORRY.
 
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