shuri

Wow, what the f**. I will pretend I never read those comments in one of my favorite places in the internet.
Sorry guys, but you should live your own lives, and let others live however they want.
That being said, lets get back to what we do best, talk and discuss about music.
I deleted mine but do you know that Japan and Korea and most western countries have serious demographic issues ? Yes having people live their life however they want would be the best but if people don't have kids, nations slowly disappear. I respect those who choose to stay single and without kids, but they shouldn't be a majority inside a country.

With that said im happy that Kaori and shuri decided to have babies ^_^
 
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Here is just the catch if you can get it. Most women are fertile in their late teens and their early 20s. It is important to make incentives for young pairs to want to have children as early as possible and as much as possible (i will say 2-4 around). THe replacement rate is 2.1 so twice as many japanese couples around the age of 16-29 should be encouraged to envelope. Yes there are women who can give birth to children afterwards but first they are not the majority and second even for them it is hard to reproduce more than one in best case 2. (and even if Kaori looks like that she would be able too, I do not know if it is deceiving since she already nears the 40 treshold)
There are a lot of issues, which are only happening in industrialized countries (especially those that have adopted a lot of western individualistic values).

I'm concerned Japan has already gone too far down the line of population collapse and the cumulative effects are already in place.

What are the issues? Lack of skill in the natural process of starting relationships, reliance on gamified, reality-distorting dating apps, an abundance of non-commital and digital alternatives to relationships for the young (including paid options), indefinitely postponing trying to start a family, financial difficulties from a challenging local and global economy, and so on.

Nobita from the Japan Reporter channel has done videos on this issue, same with a lot of other YouTube channels.

You can't legislate attraction, love, or commitment, but you can eagerly encourage and facilitate opportunities (offline) and provide incentives and support to those that dare (and make it "cool" again). The thing is a couple of generations have normalized never settling down, and the imported gender conflicts from the West (often out of context) haven't helped.

Anyway, I hope they can pull together and find a way forward. A part of that will undoubtedly be having a lot of foreigners permanently resetting in Japan.

Back to the music...! 😅
 
With that said im happy that Kaori and shuri decided to have babies ^_^
I'm also pleased and happy for them.

Having and raising children is not a hobby that you can just start and change your mind later. It's real work and challenging and sometimes can feel frustrating, but I believe it's ultimately rewarding for most that take it on.
 
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