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Kerahna

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Hi everyone~
We all met in this place out of love for music,
with a hope to make friends who share the same love.
When I made the forum two years ago, I had a policy in mind to never set any rules,
and to trust the members to get along nicely.
To the majority of you, thank you!
Please continue to be nice to each other <3
:chuu:



To the minority....
In my last year of university and I've never been more swamped with work. I've tried to keep up with the forum but it really doesn't help that every other day I'm getting complaints about people's behavior here. This doesn't apply to everyone but there are enough cases and I've gotten enough complaints that people are starting to attack ME for naively trusting you to be nice to each other.

I'm not a government censor, I can't control what you say. Banning and deleting messages only stirs up more anger. I understand that you have a right to your own opinions and you're welcome to post them, but when an argument turns to personal insults it gets really hurtful. Please think about it.... what do you gain from personal attacks on other people?

Do you convince them to believe you? NO
Do you get more respect from them? NO
Do you get respected by others? NO

Some people are more sensitive than others, please take their feelings into consideration. Know that people on the internet are real people with real feelings, even if you can't see their faces. I'm not directing this rant at one person in particular because not all of the hate-posts are visible.... people to whom this message applies will know who they are.

I continue to trust you to be civil. Thank you for understanding~
 
the conflicts arise when some people take it seriously and some people don't, so I think it's best to just stay civilized from the start.... it's better than everyone "jokingly" insulting each other anyways
 
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Kerahna said:
the conflicts arise when some people take it seriously and some people don't, so I think it's best to just stay civilized from the start.... it's better than everyone "jokingly" insulting each other anyways

I agree on that.Thank you Kera for this post :)
 
@Kerahna: i have absolutely no idea if i am one of the reasons that you opened this topic, but frankly i don't even care.
However you should know that it is not your fault that some people cannot recognize some good old fashioned sarcasm and "strait into your face" trolling. People with not so good English suffer here, they take it way to much word by word and cannot see what is actually hidden behind those words.
Well that and the fact that some fans and/or people how love to listen Kajiura music just cannot see anything beyond that.
But on the very end that doesn't really help you cause its still you who hear all the complains instead of the people who "made" this mess. This a general knowledge that each individual on the net need to learn by themselves, and that's unfortunate for some. :shy:
 
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Kerahna said:
the conflicts arise when some people take it seriously and some people don't, so I think it's best to just stay civilized from the start.... it's better than everyone "jokingly" insulting each other anyways
Yes, yes, no conflicts :chuu: (any? XD)
 
Kera-chan, I agree with you. To be honest, I'm losing interest to visit this forum for the past couples of weeks. haha. But I do visit this forum, just lesser. :XD:

@chibi-chibi, I don't think your the reason either.

Kera-chan... thank you for creating this wonderful forum! :dote:
 
I LOVE YOU KERAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!! :chuu:
so wonderful topic..
~luv it! ;)
 
Good post Kera-chan. It was about time someone cleared things up. =)
However, I can't help but feel that the people this is directed at will miss the whole point and think it doesn't pertain to them.
 
i know i'm not at fault... i was just being polite

@stormy panda: if it its going to affect them or not doesn't matter. The fact is that most of the members here should stop taking everything so seriously because whats going on here at is exactly what Kazado posted: interesting, sweet and funny :sparkleguy:
 
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Chibi-Chibi said:
@stormy panda: if it its going to affect them or not doesn't matter. The fact is that most of the members here should stop taking everything so seriously because whats going on here at is exactly what Kazado posted: interesting, sweet and funny :sparkleguy:
Still, my sense of humor disappears every time I get on the forums lately for some reason. =/
 
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grunty said:
Wait, if Chibi isn't the reason I wonder who... oyea. :plot:
Oh Jesus. Oh my God. What would this forum be like without grunty.
LMFAOOOOOOO. OH JESUS.
I just love this. I'm quoting it again.
grunty said:
Wait, if Chibi isn't the reason I wonder who... oyea. :plot:
 
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