Goodbye!

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First, I'll address this.

george1234 said:
Well, to make long story short, there was a period were there was LOTS of spam, so winter demanded from Kera and Sud to change the forum software to an other one with more spam protection and change the chat software to one that that make permanent ban posible (because on the current on, even if you get kicked, you can enter as many times as you want). But there wasnt possible to find such software that was fitting and free, so she start attacking personally to Kera for many days + fuse on the forum, so she got banned for short period of time, untill she calmed down.
She also had made her own set of rules so when she got banned, which then she got down and didnt let us reuse them.

Now we have both rules and much better antispam so she has no reason to complain anymore XD

I was never banned. Another indication of the awful communication between fellow CPM administrators.

Spam was the least of the issues- in fact, in the light of other things it's downright forgettable. There were more serious problems which begin and end with the CPM administration. Having been a mod and experienced the frustration, I know this personally. Not elaborating further because I'll just get a tl;dr post of excuses in response- the other exit threads have made this clear.

"Rules-Gate":
After I quit modship, I saw no point in giving CPM the rules. The admins and mods had no intentions of enforcing them, so putting up stern crap with no one taking it seriously would just make the team a joke. Even now they can't follow the rules they wrote themselves (ex: not allowing multiple accounts but letting banned users make new accounts). Oh well- all negligence is explained away by busyness, after all.

I still can't believe sarcasm is banned. Especially when the majority of the admins/mods can't tell when it's being used.



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I decided to quit a while ago and intended on leaving quietly, but tsubasa's, KP-X's and niney's posts were epic so why the hell not, I'll make one too.

Back in the day CPM was an accepting, interesting forum. Now that many of the members who made this place worthwhile are gone, there's nothing to be gained by remaining active. My disillusionment intensified after becoming a mod, but the way the site has devolved has completely killed off my motivation to stay here.

Speaking of my modship... looking back, I know I did a shitty job. As a mod, I should have been calm and thought things through before acting. My bad temper was partly due to said "serious problems" and the general way CPM discussions run but those aren't excuses. Some members I treated unfairly, and for what it's worth I am sorry.

I'm not going to be sorry for having opinions though. It's been amusing to read deluded fans raging over haturz!!11!1, but a damn shame to see valid and/or respectful criticisms by other users being dismissed as hate. As far as I know, there are no haters here; give me a "hater's" username and I can list all the YK works they love. Originally my criticisms were mild and I took extra care to make them tactful, but as my displeasure with YK's works increased and any sort of negative comment is interpreted as hate or rebutted with excuses, there was just no point.

While my time here has had its ups and downs, I met some lovely people. Most already know they're awesome, but a few need mentioning. Pontianak, when you're not in full on bitch mode you are insightful and make fantastic points . (Please don't take this as an insult.) Cerise, CruelAngel, and missjasminn, I haven't talked to you much but I'd like to express my sincere appreciation for your respect of differing opinions while remaining optimistic YK fans. I hope mentioning you here won't get you blacklisted from anyone's circles LOL.

I think that's it. Anything else I neglected to mention is probably in the other exit threads floating around. It's been an experience.

:bye: :bye:

Quite the fireworks festival we've got today~
 
Pontianak, when you're not in full on bitch mode you are insightful and make fantastic points.

I didn't know I had a mode that wasn't full-on bitch.

But no, far from being insulted, I'm actually very flattered. You were one of the few I respected, along with Ninetales and KP-X and Grunty, even if I might not have agreed with all of you on everything, so a compliment from you definitely makes me happy times.

Presuming that I'm not missing any sarcasm, and if I am, at least it provides you with some kind of irony in that I consider myself to at least semi-fluent in that area.
 
Haha, I keep assuming no one notices me on this forum...You're welcome, I'm very glad you feel that way about us.

I really am sorry to see you go. I wish we had talked more now. It's a shame anyone feels they have to leave this forum. I'm sure we didn't always agree but that in itself was never an issue (for me, at least). People like you and the others who've left recently were a big part of why the discussions here continued to interest me.

In line with my purported optimism (eheh) I'll hold out for the possibility that you'll all be back someday. But in any case, take care.
 
Well, I dont think I need to state the same things again, please read my post on ninetale's outro viewtopic.php?f=14&t=3640&p=205825#p205825 as well as the ones on KP-X.

You are right, you were never banned, but I didnt remember well. what I thought is that you were banned for a short period of time (some days) Will you please forgive this ? My communication with Kera is perfect, she just wasn't there when I was writing my post to confirm if you were or not banned.

Kera confirmed you werent latter on viewtopic.php?p=205764#p205764.
 
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winterrrr...it was fun talking to you...I wish I could have gotten to know you better... :uh..:

I'll just reiterate what CruelAngel said :bow:
CruelAngel said:
...You're welcome, I'm very glad you feel that way about us.

I wish you all the best, and hope you'll consider returning one day. As I said for niney, I'm sure I won't be alone in welcoming you back with wide open arms :comeback:
 
It is a shame for the forum to make such conditions when nice members have to leave it and "make deals" and "give chances" to trolls.
 
I don't check the forum for a few days and I find winter and niney saying goodbye! :omg:
I know we didn't talk that much, but I'll still miss you, winter :cry:
wish you the best〜
Cerise said:
I'm sure I won't be alone in welcoming you back with wide open arms :comeback:
+1
 
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